As I was scrolling through my Facebook this evening, I was disgusted by a status a classmate from high school posted. Apparently she left a 2 year olds birthday party today because another guest told her daughter that he couldn't play with her because she is "brown"! What is wrong with people? Why on earth does a child so young know such hateful beliefs?
I was not raised in the most open minded of households, but I developed my own thoughts, opinions, and beliefs. Quite often, my parents disagree with my, as my dad jokingly calls me "bleeding heart" opinions, but they do respect them.
One thing I miss about living in the burbs of DC is all of the diversity. In small town USA, the cultural and ethic diversity is not as plentiful and I wish my children were able to learn from and experience all gifts a multicultural community can provide.
However, even in small town USA I was asked why a boy in Anthony's class had 2 moms, and I took that opportunity to explain that all families are different and that the differences can be a wonderful thing! I mean who wouldn't love to have TWO loving mommies! That boy was quite lucky!
Just a few weeks ago, Madison said her best friend at school has beautiful brown skin. It made me smile to hear her say that... My kids have been taught that the world is like a box of crayons. We need all types and colors to make beautiful pictures, for if each crayon was the same our picture would lack vibrancy and beauty and be dull and boring. Who wants a picture like that?
Am I saying that I am perfect, by no means. However, I do believe that my children are learning to expect good from all people regardless of how they look, who they love, or what they believe. If someones beliefs are different from ours, why not take the opportunity to learn from the differences? Who knows we just might be surprised by what we discover!
I am so upset that a two year old little girl was treated poorly today. She is an innocent, beautiful, sweet child. What has she done to deserve such hate? I only hope that the child who has been taught blatant racism grows up to form and develop his own beliefs and I hope that child's mother or father was called on it because they should be ashamed of themselves!